Leaving the Nest

Hello Friends: I know it’s been awhile. I’m occupying a place of contradiction; busy yet still, full yet unsatisfied, grateful yet melancholy. I struggle with feeling I’ve nothing new to say, yet I want to make my voice heard. A month ago, I hung a spring wreath on my door made of twigs and pink Read More

Weekend Book Review: Bewilderment

Bewilderment by Richard Powers My rating: 4 of 5 stars Genre: Fiction, Dystopian Fiction Edition Reviewed: Audiobook, Unabridged Published September 21st 2021 by Random House Audio “The laws that govern the light from a firefly in my backyard as I write these words tonight also govern the light emitted from an exploding star one billion light-years Read More

Small Steps

Happy new year! I’ve noticed that a year has a cycle of its own: The hopeful, verdant productivity of spring; the hot, leisurely lull of summer; the nostalgic, fire-colored winding down of fall; the final determined frosty push of winter. After December, though winter has still some proving to do, we turn to a new Read More

Discomfort and Joy

Here in the thick of the holiday season, I’m feeling the confluence of discomfort and joy. I know it’s supposed to be comfort, right? “Let nothing you dismay…” Well, when you’re sober, you realize just how frequently the holidays present us with situations and circumstances that you’d rather drink away or through. When the old Read More

It was exactly how I thought it would be

My son called from college last night, and I sat down to catch up with him on the past few weeks. Last weekend, he was to attend a social event with his girlfriend put on by her sorority and their partner fraternity. She’d been asking him repeatedly to go to one of these functions but Read More

Weekend Book Review: Lessons in Chemistry

Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus My rating: 5 of 5 stars Genre: Historical Fiction Edition reviewed: Audiobook, Unabridged Published April 5th 2022 by Random House Audio “As humans, we’re by-products of our upbringings, victims of our lackluster educational systems, and choosers of our behaviors. In short, the reduction of women to something less than men, Read More

Weekend Book Review: Mountain Song

Mountain Song: A Journey to Finding Quiet in the Swiss Alps by Lucy Fuggle My rating: 4 of 5 stars Mountain Song: A Journey to Finding Quiet in the Swiss Alps by Lucy Fuggle opens with the author turning a familiar wish into reality, as she rents a quaint house, in a tiny village called Read More

Does online connection count and other things introverts wonder about…

The verdict is in on connection and the general consensus is that it extends your life expectancy, increases your chances of staying sober in recovery and is necessary to thrive spiritually. Good stuff, unless you’re an introvert. Unless being around people wears you out instead of recharges you. I’ve written about my introverted nature before Read More

Weekend Book Review: The Cloisters

The Cloisters by Katy Hays My rating: 4 of 5 stars Genre: Fiction, Mystery Hardcover, 320 pages Expected publication: November 1st 2022 by Atria Books The Cloisters is a strong debut from Katy Hays, who I hope continues to write more intriguing, atmospheric novels! Hays gives her readers a rich sensory experience by setting the story Read More

Self-Destruction

It’s amazing to me that, while our bodies possess hundreds of survival adaptations, we also carry within us tendencies to self destruct. Physiological and biological processes, along with instinctual behaviors, increase our longevity or help us adapt to changing circumstances. A flight or flight response is triggered when the body senses threat. Fat storage commences Read More